I dont like it. I want a job to stay at home for now…I am trying to look for a job but its hard with my husband deploying and all. and I need to keep my time free for him..I also tried “get paid to take surveys” but some of them dont work. and are scams…Anyone know a good site to anything that can get me money at home???

I was a working woman during the whole 7 years of my marriage apart from 9 months pregnancy and the first year of my daughter’s birth. My husband wasn’t supporting the family and as I was financially providing for our needs, he was lazy, inconsistent with his job and that created whole lot of other problems such as I was always tired for working long hours 7am-9pm (doing lab research), he wasn’t cooking as much so lots of fast food, my daughter was full time at a day care from year 1 until now (4 years) from 7am to 6pm ($1000 a month cost of daycare), and we always had fights. Not only that, I think that too much work and no time for exercise has made me gain a few pounds and basically I always look tired, and consequently our sex life suffered too, because I was so pissed of at him all the time.

Recently I decided that enough is enough and that I don’t like the modern life. So I decided to quit my job altogether, save the daycare money and take care of my daughter who apparently connects more with the daycare staff than her own mother and force my husband to provide for us. Luckily, for the fear of being hungry and out in the streets, he got a very good job and apparently is very satisfied, I have time to exercise and take care of my body, respect and love him more because he is taking responsibility so consequently better sex life, I relax more and still I am studying online MBA and doing network marketing online from home.

However, I second guess myself thinking that if I don’t work in the society, I am not contributing to the community and also think that maybe my education is now useless. I plan on working next year, where my child is 5 and can attend school for free which would make more sense for me to work then, and I would have this year, strengthening my marriage and myself and my daughter.

Do you think I made a horrible decision and I should go to work?

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I dont like it. I want a job to stay at home for now…I am trying to look for a job but its hard with my husband deploying and all. and I need to keep my time free for him..I also tried “get paid to take surveys” but some of them dont work. and are scams…Anyone know a good site to anything that can get me money at home???

The trick to getting through the slow times is motivation. If you want to make money online, you must keep yourself motivated to work. Here are some tips on how to stay focused and motivated:

1) Listen to success stories about how others “make money online.” If you hear about how well other people are doing, you will want to join them. This can be a healthy competition.

2) Share your success stories and your failures. Sometimes typing out a mistake and getting feedback on it can help you see exactly where you went wrong. A mistake learned from is a mistake that will not be repeated.

3) Set daily goals. You must do something in order to make money online. Perhaps you need to place a certain number of ads or write a certain number of blog posts. If you write down your goals and hold yourself to them, you will be on the right road to it.

4) Keep bills near your workspace. If you can see the stack of bills while you are working, you will realize that you need to work instead of surf the web.

5) Get a corkboard for special purchases. Somewhere near your workspace get a corkboard and draw a line down the middle of it. Print out a picture of some special purchase and pin it to the board. When you make enough money to purchase the item move it to the other side of the board.

6) Take responsibility for your own professional development. If you are going to be a business owner, you need to learn what that means. You need to know the movers and shakers who make money online and network with them. If they offer advice, get it. If they run blogs, read them. Spend some time each day learning how to make more money.

7) And last but not least, rest and relax. Do not fall into the trap of being a workaholic. People who work from home usually end up working a lot more hours than they mean to. Set a schedule and stick to it unless some time sensitive emergency happens. You are working from home and trying to do this to maximize your time with you family. Make sure you enjoy that time. Also, it will be easier to focus and learn if you are well rested.

A lot of people dream of being their own boss and many people want to do it. They develop a product or service that by all rights should be successful but it isn’t. When people get frustrated, they quit. If you quit, you are guaranteed to not make money online.

Staying motivated while ignoring the naysayers

Not every brick and mortar business adventure works out. Businesses close all the time, even ones that work in traditional and high demand areas. An online businessperson can fall into the same pitfalls that a traditional brick and mortar businessperson can fall into. Just because someone else failed does not mean you will especially if you know the tricks on how to make money online.

When you work your idea that will “make money online” for you, you need to make sure your idea is relevant. Do not offer something obsolete. You also need sound guidance. Without the right guidance, nearly everyone will be doomed to failure.

Other people can make money online, why can’t you? You do not need a business degree. You do not need a fancy advisory board. All you need is a little effort, a lot of desire, a computer, internet access and a bit of creativity. Let the “Negative Nellies” continue to work for someone else. Let them make their manager’s bonuses bigger. You can work for yourself and enjoy reaping all of the rewards of being your own boss.

There are a lot of people who will tell you that it is impossible to make money online or it is impossible to make enough money online to support a family.

Ignore those naysayers!

The truth of the matter is that right now, there are thousands of people who make money online.

Those “Negative Nellies” are probably people who tried to be their own bosses and failed to make money online. The question is: why did they fail? How much effort did they put toward their business? Some people think that the internet will just hand them cash. If you want to make money online, you will have to work but you will not have to work as hard as you may think. If the negative people did not market themselves and their service properly then yes, they did fail.

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