Ok here’s the deal.

I met this girl online. This is the first time I have ever let anything come of meeting a girl online. Her and I have talked over the phone for about 3 years now, Well phone/online and during are time talking we often talked of dating and of course we had sent pictures back and forth to one another. She expressed great interest in me she often spoke of how handsome I am. Well in February she asked me if I would like to come to Northern Colorado to meet her in person, which is roughly 650 miles from were I live. (662mi) from my front door step to hers. Well her and I are both going into the military and I happened to have the cash at the time for the drive to Colorado as well as some spending money. The timing was perfect. And on-top of that I had never been to Colorado so I jumped at the chance. Well I drove the distance alone. And got there after nearly 10 hours of driving. And we met. At first it seemed great. We shared a good strong hug and talked about how glad we were to finally get to meet each other.

Well that didn’t last long at all. After a short time of being there and things going ok…and a few awkward moments had been the worst of are issues at this point. But we decided to get some vodka and make screw drivers (this is about after 3 days of me being there). Well we did this. Her family drank with us as well. But after only one drink she started acting very childish. When I tried to sit beside her she would almost burst into tears and tell me stop making her so uncomfortable. And I did nothing out of line. The most I had attempted to do at this point was put my arm around her. (We hadnt even kissed or anything yet) Her family loved me and thought I was great. Her friends felt the same way as well. But anywase they noticed that she was acting like this. And finally her sister stepped up and told her to stop acting like a baby and treat me with more respect than that because I drove 650 miles to be with her. Well after being told off by her sister she retaliated by throwing a temper tantrum. This was a major shock and turn off for me. Well half her family stayed downstairs with me and the other half followd her upstairs to talk to her. Her two sisters and one of their boyfriends stayed downstairs and comforted me as I had mixed emotions.

Well anywase after that night things were never the same between us. Her family pretty much told her she was really Effing up if she didnt jump at the chance to go out with me. I guess she has dated some real jerks before or somthing. I was baffeld this whole time because, All the while talking on the phone/internet she spoke to me in such a way that led me to beleive that she wanted a relationship. So I drove all that ways with my main reason hoping to start a real relationship with her.

After all of that mess happend she went into complete lockdown. I ended spending one whole day there with her sister watching T.V simply because she was to weirded out by the situation and (needed a break) as she put it. Not only did I do that (which kinda worked out because her sis and I turned out making really good friends with each other) But not only did that happen she also started calling off plans her and I had made together. Small things like going out to eat or going for a drive threw the mountains. All this also hurt me. Numorus other things happend as well that are pretty much the same thing as what I had just described to you. But anywase this whole thing got me so down during my time there I ended up staying the night with one of her friends, then going to a rave in the middle of the night and rolling extasy and almost got arrested. (stupidly) After all of that mess the last day I was there with her she wouldnt hardly let me touch her. She was acting like she was so repulsed by me that she barely hugged me upon my departure.

It really sucks though because over the course of two years I have grown an attachment to her and I really do love her. No doubt. But whats the best way to get over this situation. I mean I feel like she is just flaking on me and I want to be friends with her for now. But she is clearly not ready for a relationship she simply does not have the maturity for it. I want to know what the best way to get over somthing like this is. I feel heartbroken and somewhat insulted that I put so much time and effort into trying to be a sweet good guy with her and she kinda just treated me like crap.
I am about to turn 21
She just turned 19.

This is my first time ever to try dating online. I would not do it before because I knew this kinda crap would happen..haha im more a in person dater. However, I figured I should at least give it a chance.

We met online a couple of months ago, told him i wasnt available but told him will help him find a GF, started talkin a lot ever since (he’s from the UK), and now we got this weird connection going on between us, but the thing is.. We are SO different!I wanna know how you feel about it, and if this kind of relationships actually work or not, coz he’s coming next month for a visit..

I got a BSc in Electronics Engineering, planning on getting an MBA in the near future … He hardly passed high school.
I work in the field of media and e-marketing … he works for the army.
I am a career-oriented woman, planning one day on running my own business or becoming an executive in a big company… he is an enlisted paramedic for the army.
I come from a highly educted family, parents both had their successful careers before retirement, sent us to pivate schools and private universities, got me and my siblings cars on our 20th bdays… He’s an ex convict, divorced, body full of tattoos & still gets wasted EVERY saturday at the age of 33!
I am 5’10 tall … he’s 5’6
I was brought up on catholic beliefs … he had his first child outside the wedlock, HE was born outside wedlock!

Ok, so those are all the differences.

On the other hand, we spend A LOT of time talkin to each other, we can talk practically about ANYTHING, he’s good hearted, been thru a lot, he’s really sensitive and appreciates little things in life, he’s a good listener, believes that love has no boundaries and all that romantic stuff. He loves his kids so much and I find that a very attractive attribute.

I want to hear from married couples who have been married for a long time if these differences actually affect a marriage, I have dated “good-on-paper” guys before, but it’s been a while since I found this kind of connection with someone.

Also, I want to hear from parents, will you support your daughter if she decided she wanted to be with a guy like that? Different cultural/educational/socio-economic/reli… background?

I know talkin about getting in a relationship is too soon bcoz we have never met, but he will be here next month to see the possibility of us being together, he made it clear that he wants to get married eventually, and he has mentioned on several times that he has strong feelings for me.
We do have a lot of things in common. We talk about books, music, politics and religion … A LOT actually … he didn’t go to college but that doesn’t mean he’s a lazy uneducated and a bum. Plus, we share the same ethics, being in the army and having a lot of his friends passing away is making him more religious by time, I am not super religious myself, neither is he, and he has mentioned several times that this is the way he is raising his current children, and the future ones.
he has made it clear that he’s interested in starting a relationship with me, i know he likes me a lot, and i like him too .. but is that enough for a long-term relationship? I need to know before he jumps on a plane and comes over!

ok, my boyfriend is 18 while I’m 19 and we’ve been together for almost 8 months. he lives under a strict household as do i , but I can usually use my house using some sort of excuse. he usually cant leave his house a lot of the time and he is now in college and all he does is go to school , go home and then study. I try my best to see him as much as i can but it seems like the only time i can really see him is if i go visit him at his school. We had a talk today and he says that he feels like there is no more excitement in our relationship and that he is getting bored.
I really dont know what i can do to make this work. he says that he wants to have more interesting convos when we chat online and that hes tried of doing the same thing over and over again. when we actually do get to hang out he never even knows what he wants to do so we end up doing the same things. I’m trying my best to make this work but i really dont know how to make this relationship ” exciting” or however it used to be. all i can really do is talk about more interesting topics and maybe do different things when we hang out. the only problem is like i said before, he nevers knows what he wants to do and also his family isnt doing well financially so hes trying his best to save money.
I understand he’s under a lot of stress because of his family’s financial issues, and school , but i really don’t know what i can do to make this relationship happier and more fun. I just want to see him as much as i can because i might have to leave for college in australia soon so i’m trying to find every possible chance there is to hang out with him but when he says he’s bored i really dont know what to do. ad when i ask him why hes bored all he says is i dont know or he wants to talk about interesting topics. can somebody please give me suggestions because i really dont know what to do,

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Ok I will give you some background on our relationship first. We have been together for about 12 yrs now including the time we dated and lived together. He has always been really sharp with his tongue to me and my children. What I mean by sharp with is tongue is that he is fast to say something negative to you and fast to get angry. Any time that he has done this, he always blames me and I get upset. He says I get mad for him opening his mouth. I don’t mind someone saying I have done something that bothers them, just don’t do it in a demeaning way. We have been to counselors and we have also counseled with our pastor. Our pastor said he was superficial. I would have to agree.
Whenever there is an ie issue that is he doing, I tend to not even tell him now because I know in some way he is going to blame me for it.
About 2 1/2 yrs ago I had enough and left him while he was at work. I should have told him and not just left, but I was scared and didn’t want him saying something that would make me change my mind. While I was away I had an affair. After-wards I told him about it and he still wanted me to come back so we reconciled. He has done nothing but bring this up to me every opportunity he gets. He has told me many times that he forgives me, but I know he hasn’t or he wouldn’t bring it up all the time. He was unfaithful to me prior to us getting married and I didn’t find out about it until after we were married for 3 yrs. I forgave him and never bring it up to him.
We have a daughter together that is 8 and I have 2 children from a previous marriage. My two children really don’t like him because he doesn’t treat them nicely. They are now 18 and 19 and one isn’t even living at home anymore.
I do love him, but most of the time I can’t stand to be around him. I have been going to counseling on my own for 3 months now just to fix anything that might be wrong with me, but I really don’t think at this point it is me. I have never been negative and hardly ever say anything to him about his faults because I chose him with or without faults and I know how it feels to be criticized for every little thing you do and think.
I am going to school online right now getting my degree and he complains about this constantly that he doesn’t get any time with me. I do spend time with him, but it is hard sometimes to spend time with him when all he does it be mean and demean me and say how bad of a person I am.
I know I am rambling on here, but I am really at the end of my rope here and don’t know what to do.
Another thing that bothers me is that he separated our money and makes me pay half the bills in the house. He makes way more than I do so half the bills for me doesn’t leave me anything left to save or have fun with. He tells me that he should be the head of household and I should submit to him as the bible says. I agree, but it is hard to submit and trust someone like him with all the decisions in the house. I could go on and on about all the things that has happened because I have several journals, but I really want to know if it is just me or is this the way a marriage should be?

I feel like I am being mentally abused and I am not sure if this is accurate or not. Please help!